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There was no one to answer to. Now you have your woman to
answer to.
You friends are pissed off at you because you were always there
with them and now you have to answer to your woman.
You have
that manly side in which you share with the boys, then there's the
softer side with charm for your woman. You figure they'll understand.
To help get rid of the problem, you stopped dating her because her act
was getting tired. The very next day you were out chasing after every
piece of tail you could get your hands on, but their still mad at you.
The perfect woman
Your woman understand the bond you and your friends have, so
she's not about to mess with that part of your life. In fact she loves
it. She's attracted to that side of you along with the pranks, inside
jokes etc.. She told you that your bond with the boys is sweet. What
I'm trying to say here is that she has appreciation for you and your
friends. Your woman even encourages you to make plans with your
friends.
Just like us
The greatest thing is that you can bring her along with you to
your friends place. She gets along with them great. No worries there.
You woman knows what she's doing, she knows when to speak and when to
just sit back and watch what's going on. Doesn't matter what you and
your friends are doing, your girl blends in perfectly. She's almost
like one of the boys. well almost. Every man on this earth would love
to have a woman like yours.
Looking to be the best
Your woman is just too good looking for these guys to handle. She
is so ideal and hot that your friends either want her or cannot stand
the fact that you found her. I have something that might help you out.
Men want their friends to get a great girl but...not too much of a
great girl. Deep down each man in the group wants to have the best of
everything. Guys are naturally born with that edge to have the best of
everything and will do almost everything to get it.
When your friend gets a brand new amazing looking car don't you
ever wish you had what he's got? When one of your boys walks into a
party with a hot little blonde on his arm, don't you wish you had her
on your arm? Let's but our friendship aside here for a second, no
matter what we are to each other we want to have the best and that's
it. We all want to be the leader of the pack, which is why we seek to
kill each other on the football field.
Why not just appreciate?
Put a girl in the middle of all this and it can get very nasty.
Here you are with your perfect honey. The girl who can get along with
your group without a problem. You've never felt more on top with your
girlfriend in your life. Yes your boys are happy for you but they are
also envious of what you've got that they don't. Forget the fact that
your time is now divided between her and them. That used to be a
problem until you met your woman. Unlike your last girlfriend who was
a nut case, this girl is a perfect 10.Whats their problem? Your
friends probably are envious because they only have each other and a
little fling here and there. To a man, the group can see that you've
become more mature and you're ready to settle down for the future. But
when they look around, the girls they see pale in comparison to the
woman you have found.
Your boys want her around but at the same time, they wish she
wouldn't go away. She can talk about sports and hang with the guys, as
well as talk a little dirty. This taking the cake, she loves to talk
about women, more then you do. She'll even pick out a hot girl for you
boys to stare at. What a prize. Add it up and you have one amazing
woman on your hands.
The guys are deciding whether or not to say congrats or beat you
up. You girl is the best looking any of you have landed in a real long
time. The guys will ask when you're not around "how the heck did he
get a girl like that"? They figure if you can get this girl to love
you they should be able to get the same. But it hasn't happened yet.
So why their dating "okay" girls you're sitting there with your love
muffin enjoying every minute of your life. This can be very hard for
your boys to swallow.
A better man
You still hang out with the boys but it's just not the same
anymore. Now that you've got a good woman in your life everything's
been changed. To piss your boys off even more is that your girl
encourages you, but you still say no. Maybe the fact that you don't
want to do anything anymore makes the group realize how pathetic some
of their antics are. You have evolved with an ideal partner by your
side but they have remained angry, doing the same thing week in, week
out. You still love to chill and party with them, but the whole thing
is different. They need time to grow and then they'll understand.
What you could do for your boys
Try not to bring up that you have noticed that their all envious
of you and your new girl. That could cause something bad to happen.
Did you honestly expect your friend to just come up to you and say
"man I'm so jealous of you and I want what you've got"? He'll never do
this. So here is what you do:
*Usually hot women know other hot girls. Maybe your girl can
hook your boys up with one of her friends.
*If your woman is such a problem with the group bring her
around gradually. Don't shove her in their face.
*Marry her. This way the boys will have to learn to love her.
*Have a baby with her.
Let your boys know that you love them
but you also love your girl. |
